How do I figure out my feelings and stop being confused?

Why is he not right for you? I think you are looking for something that doesn't exist. Besides if he was a good friend then why wouldn't he make a good boyfriend? Relationships are based on friendship and love. Alot of girls get so into being "attracted" and thats why they end up with the "bad boys" and worse, the "players". I also think girls don't truly know what they want even though they think they do.